I don’t understand people sometimes….
Today I got an email from a “friend” saying that she has to find someone else to take my place as a bridesmaid because she never sees me AND I have no time for her.
One: she lives and hour and half a way and I dont have a car so that hinders me from just dropping everything and going out to see her.
Two: She only tried to set something up with me twice since she asked me to be in her wedding.
Three: This email was the FIRST time I had heard from her in almost 3 months or more (I wasn’t counting). Everytime I would post on her wall on Facebook whether it be a “Hey, how ya doin?” or a link to a bridesmaids dress I really liked…I NEVER got a response.
Mom seems to think someone else came along that she wants in her wedding and she pinned the fault for me not having time for her on me. Because if I were a true friend and she REALLY wanted me to be in her wedding…she wouldn’t have been so quick to kick me out.
I saw that she was going to delete me on Facebook as a friend, so I did it before she could. I feel like I won that battle because she didn’t get the chance to do it. Plus, she gets married in October and she hasn’t even picked out a wedding dress and she let everyone else tell her what she should/needed to do for the wedding. So I feel like I dodged a very stressful bullet. She seemed very unorganized with the whole thing.
Ok, I feel much better!!